Flights of Fancy Mom

I'm a mom with dreams.  I want to live my life with no boundaries.  One day at a time.

About Me

Help Get Me Back into the Dating World in My 40’s

I’ve been divorced going on 12 years now. Separated 12 1/2 years. My daughter was 3 1/2 and I was 31.

Since then, I’ve dated some. Had one relationship last almost a year and then dated some more.  To be honest?  I haven’t had a date in quite awhile. At first it was due to me getting laid off from my job and trying to start a freelance business. I didn’t feel I had anything to bring to the table. Then it was because I had gained all of my weight back, plus some. I wasn’t happy with myself, so how could I be happy trying to be with someone else? Now? Well, it’s various reasons. One, I moved to a new city and I don’t know anyone.  Two, I’m still trying to find me. I don’t know what I want out of life, so how do I expect to know what I want in a man?

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40 Random Facts About Me

I wanted to take this time and let you get to know a little about me.  I’m a bit contradictory and my friends tend to get a kick out of it. So, let’s see if we can clear a few things up!

  • I graduated high school in 1991 (SHHHHH)
  • I graduated college with an Associates Degree in 1994
  • I was married in 1997
  • Had my daughter in 2000
  • My Christmas Gift in 2000 was seeing my ankle bones again 🙂
  • I was divorced in 2005
  • I graduated college with my Bachelors Degree in 2009
  • I’ve lived in 11 different homes.
  • I just moved to a different state with my 11th home.
  • I’ve lived in DE 43 years
  • My favorite food is Italian and Mexican. (Sorry America!)
  • I have 2 nephews, a niece and a great niece
  • I want to be a full time RVer when my daughter graduates either high school or college
  • I am a homebody
  • I love to dance
  • I love listening to music
  • I love hanging with my friends and family
  • I can hold a grudge
  • Only I am allowed to call my sisters and brother names
  • I am a half sister to 2 sisters and 1 brother.
  • I am their mediator
  • I just published my first book
  • I am writing my second book
  • I am launching my freelance business
  • In being a full time RVer, I want to work from the road while traveling
  • My father (who died in 1998) loved to travel. Apparently wanderlust is genetic as I’ve had the itch to pull up my roots and become a nomad. Traveling the US and other countries
  • I’ve been tempted to sell my daughter on eBay.  (Come on. What parent hasn’t since eBay came into existence???)
  • I have very few friends because I prefer quality over quantity
  • I don’t like watching sports, but will for the right guy. Otherwise, I’ll go get a mani/pedi
  • I’ve had TWO jobs in my life that I’ve actually liked. Yes, I hated the others
  • I’ve owned seven cars
  • I’ve only liked one of my seven cars
  • I’m VERY picky
  • It takes me FOREVER to eat a meal. A friend once counted 57 times that I chewed one bite
  • I believe in reincarnation
  • I believe in precognition
  • I am a talker
  • I am loyal
  • I can keep a secret. It will die with me
  • I am afraid for our country right now with the choice of candidates

So, there is 40 things about me.  What do we have in common?

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